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Hello,
It's good to hear from you.
The general advice is to go to the Health Visitor to request an assessment by a speech and language therapist as soon as possible, and while you are waiting for the assessment, follow the advice set out by the British Stammering Association:
WHEN TALKING WITH YOUR CHILD
How you and others respond is important and will shape your child’s perception of themselves. Be measured in your response - try not to show you’re worried even if that’s how you’re feeling. Remain calm and relaxed and try to:
- slow down your own rate of speech, but don't tell your child to slow down or take a deep breath
- have one-on-one time (just five minutes every day) with your child, where they aren’t competing for attention with tasks or other family members
- ask one question at a time and give them plenty of time to answer
- use short, simple sentences.
WHEN LISTENING TO YOUR CHILD
Resist the very strong temptation to show anxiety, impatience or to correct or fill in their speech. Try instead to:
- keep natural eye-contact
- listen to what your child is saying, not how they say it
- pause before answering questions
- make sure everyone in the conversation gets a turn to speak
- acknowledge speech difficulties with reassurance and encouragement, if that feels right for you and your child. You might say something like, "Learning to talk is quite a hard thing to do - lots of people get stuck on their words and that’s OK. You’re doing really well."
Stammers can be just a temporary phase or they can carry-on longer. Some of the red flags to look out for are:
- if the stammer has been present for longer than two or three months
- if there's a family history of stammering
- is there are other speech sound difficulties
- if the stammer has started after the age of 3.5 years.
We're here if you need us and I hope things improve quickly.
Nicola Speech and Language Therapist (The Owl Centre)
Stammering
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Yes. I would go to the Health Visitor and ask for a referral to the Speech and Language therapy department and then follow the advice from the BSA (British Stammering Association) in the meantime. I hope that makes sense. Take care, Nicola x